catwym:

lemonfxcker:

yourkinkisnasty:

this awful vegan guy i know just posted about vegan BDSM harnesses/leashes/collars and how awesome it is that now his BDSM can be “cruelty free”

translation: i care more about chickens than i do about women

It’s a kink that some men and women enjoy though. Stop trying to make every thing into hate on women. By the way, I am a woman.

Nothing wrong with getting off to roleplay rape and abuse :)))

Cruelty free bdsm is literally the funniest thing I’ve ever heard

I’m happy to report that all my garrote wires are produced in the EEC and are free from conflict minerals.

So you mustn’t shame me for my work. I enjoy it and it’s entirely consensual! My targets knew what they were getting into when they took out a loan from my regular client Big Dave. Nothing wrong with strangulation – lots of folx are into choking these days.

All this kink stuff makes my work even easier, as a matter of fact – the Metropolitan Police hardly even bother to investigate the crime scenes any more! ^_-

76genders:

stranglewankhitman:

kneelspreadbeg:

I’m not hitting you out of hatred. I’m hitting you out of love. Because you’re so beautiful and important to me that I want you to always be wearing my marks. Publicly, where everyone can see them, and know that you belong to me.

Ah, you seem like someone who might be able to help a guy out!
😊

The thing is, as a professional killer, I’ve always been very careful not to leave marks on my targets, because generally it’s considered unprofessional and a bit gauche to leave evidence of violence at a murder scene. You either get rid of the body or make it look like an accident – only cheap thugs like Dmitry kill people and leave the corpse lying around obviously a victim of grievous violence.

So, I just have to ask: when you’re battering your girlfriend, how do you manage to leave marks on her and get away without being hassled by the police, or by witnesses? Dmitry usually pays off the police or gets his family to blackmail them into leaving him alone. I’d do the same, but all of my family members disowned me shortly after I went to university and they found out I hadn’t actually stopped torturing small animals, I’d just got better at hiding their bodies under the burned remains of my father’s shed.

Thanks in advance! In exchange, I’ll offer you a 5% discount on any future hits. We violent men have to stick together! ^_^

@stranglewankhitman this response is the best thing I’ve ever read

Awww, thankx, @76genders! UwU

I’m glad you responded to me. That @kneelspreadbeg chap never replied! TT_TT

That’s the trouble with wifebeaters, you know: they always think they’re better than us serial killers. There’s actually quite a big overlap between our communities, but good luck getting them to acknowledge that!

radicalfeminismisacult:

ouijacourse:

good parts of radical feminism; antikink, understanding that men perpetuate fascism, liberating from gender roles, small pockets of lesbian separatism, the psychology of abuse beyond the “pray it away” solution conservativism offers, sex positivity that isn’t hella heteronormative/normalizing abuse.

bad parts; condoning terfs

Bad parts of radical feminism: pretending that transphobia is just a small side effect, rather than the main interest of contemporary radfems. Also pretending that fantasies are the same as abuse, therefore demonizing people for harmless thoughts and consensual sexual activity.

^^^THANK YOU. I am sick and tired of folx saying my activities are abusive! It’s a harmless fantasy.

Well, I mean, I do actually attack the targets for real, and leave real injuries (in my enforcement/debt collection work). But what I mean is, the context is a fantasy. They have real bruises and cuts, but I make them tell the police that they fell down the stairs. And that’s the fantasy part!

I wish people wouldn’t demonise me for enjoying thinking about and acting on violence. It’s always been like this, even when I was a child my babysitter calling me a “little fucking psychopath“ (an ableist slur, bt-dubs) for tying up the neighbours’ cat and poking it with sticks, to the judiciary saying all sorts of cruel things about me when I was on remand (one of the few communities where I felt validated).

Nice to meet another kinkster! ^_^ If you want any tips on cleaning up blood and silencing witnesses, just let me know xoxo

machokerr:

kinkphobia is reall TWERFy and if you engage in it you are carrying out the TWERF agenda..

It’s also very problematic and offensive to the community of bondage fans, submissives, masochists, wifebeaters, dom/mes and serial killers. It’s a wide umbrella and it’s inclusive of a lot of folx.

Plus, kinkphobia does real harm to my career. I specialise in strangulations and making the scene look like a Scene (that’s kink terminology, just FYI). But if auto-erotic asphyxiation is secretive and taboo, people might not realise what the crime scene is supposed to look like, and start calling my work “suspicious deaths”!

The Kink Umbrella

Lately I’ve been self-analysing and considering my identity with a critical lens, and I’m wondering if I could truly be classed as a “kinkster”. The kink umbrella is a broad movement, inclusive of just about everyone with an interest in bondage, domination, submission, sadism, abuse, wife beating or pain play.

But, and here’s the crucial thing: my interest in pain and bondage isn’t sexual. Sure, I enjoy my career, of course, but to me it’s just a job. And it really is a job just like any other: as we say in our industry, “Wet Work Is Work”! ^_^ (Really, my personal preference is pyrophilia, but that’s a story for another time.)

So, my question is, am I valid? Please tell me I’m valid. I mean, I identify as a valid kinkster and I am a queer-identified heterosexual, but is that enough??

elierlick:

I pushed the button.

At last: a movement that prioritises me and my struggle! As a queer-identified, heterosexual man with a penchant for BDSM and an alternative haircut, it’s about time lesbians and gays made room for me.

On many occasions, my identity has been challenged and invalidated (“hey, you’re not my usual driver, wh-aaaarghrghrgh” is one I hear a lot). I’ve been shamed for my “pathological obsession with violence”, my “complete lack of empathy”, and my “celebration and normalisation of violent behaviour”. Let’s just say that that particular lawyer for the prosecution was very problematic, and leave it at that

The point is, queer people such as myself have suffered long. Current attitudes to sexuality almost never involve money or violence, so hitmen like me are very progressive and we transgress cultural norms. Unfortunately, given the nature of our work, we have to be secretive about it and hide our authentic selves. TT_TT So I’m glad I have some allies who are willing to do the work for me, and support me instead of gays and lesbians! ^_^

Some mean, exclusionary gays and lesbians say that my identity is a choice, unlike their sexuality, and that apparently justifies them excluding me and having their own movement all about their rights. Well, it’s not true – I did not choose my interesting, super trendy haircut, Dmitry spiked my macchiato with polonium and it just went like this over the course of a few days. I don’t think the patchy bits are going to grow back. Anyway, Guro and I finally got him back, we stole a load of heroin from Wee Malkie and pinned the blame on Dmitry, so he’s had to move house suddenly and go into hiding! Serves him right! -_-

DO. NOT. BE. ASHAMED. OF. YOUR.FETISH.

yourenotafeminist:

As long as everyone is willing and happy don’t be ashamed.

If you like bdsm that’s okay!
If you like furries that’s okay!
If you like fictional girls that’s okay!

Your kinks are your kinks and that’s okay! Everyone is different and we shouldn’t be ashamed! And don’t feel ashamed! It’s dumb to be ashamed of your fetishes. Fetishes as long as they aren’t hurting anyone are a-ok!

This is really validating and lovely to see!
Though I feel I should add that, actually, even hurting people is okay! As the OP says, if you like BDSM, which often includes pain play (and breath play like my work), then that’s okay.

For most of my life, I was shamed for my extreme BDSM breath play sex work by the police and the judiciary, so it makes me happy to see acceptance. Fortunately I was never convicted, I was working for an agency at the time and my manager Sid “The Snake” visited all the members of the jury at home and convinced them of my innocence.

Thank-you for your allyship!! ^_^