Tag: murder acceptance

tooiconic:

clitrex:

pattythenest:

clitrex:

little-red-clitoral-hood:

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Men are fucking horrifying. 

kill men 

@little-red-clitoral-hood if you are really gonna take this THAT seriously..idk what else to tell you
clitrex please seek therapy 

The fact that you take a dude wanting to choke out his girlfriend lightly is far more worrying

It’s a joke, hun.

Speaking as an extreme breath play specialist worker, I’m very happy to see strangulation being normalised and celebrated! ^_^

It wasn’t so very long ago that if a target was found dead from an apparent auto-erotic asphyxiation, his relatives would immediately suspect murder and call the police. We hitmen lived under intense suspicion and carried a burden of shame. ;_;

But in recent years, I’ve faced less antagonism from law enforcement, because now when people find my targets’ bodies, they say “Oh well, he was a cool, progressive kind of guy, I guess he must’ve been into choke porn”. And they don’t suspect a thing! ^_- Most of my targets tend to me assigned-male-at-births for some reason (it’s not a sexism thing, it’s just that drug barons, warlords, arms dealers, gangsters etc. tend to be popular targets and they’re male-dominated industries), and, luckily for me, they tend to be the demographic who openly and publicly discuss their fetish for physical assault and strangulation. And now they’re encouraged, and in turn that encourages and empowers me! ^_^

Thank-you to the original tweeters for being such a great ally to me! ❤

Here’s a little comic strip I made, all about how you can be a good ally to your favourite empowered, independent, high-class extreme breath play specialist! ^_^

It’s not difficult. All you have to do is shut the fuck up and let me get on with doing my thing, no matter how dangerous it may be to myself and others! I know what I’m talking about better than you do, so just trust me on everything, okay

patchworkheart:

alucards-fine-ass:

auntiewanda:

respectthefemalebody:

Feminism is about burning down the PornHub and Kink.com headquarters.

Just say it’s your kink and watch the libfems ideologically malfunction. 

are we not going to talk about how PornHub offers comprehensive sexual education to those who are deprived in schools?

imagine hating that people masturbate so much 

XD

Also, PornHub funds scholarships for women in STEM fields and has their own snow plow service because they saw the Gov’t sucks at their job

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Imagine hating sex workers so much you want to destroy a company that employs sex workers and uses profits to better the lives of the people

Thank-you for supporting our industry!
😊 Speaking as a self-described extreme BDSM breath play specialist, I’m freelance, but a lot of my colleagues were made redundant when Screwdriver Smith was imprisoned for a string of killings. He managed several assassins! 😢 (What was he supposed to do instead of profiting from murder anyway? Go back into financial services?)

Our clients are perfectly lovely, normal people! The reason they hire us is that they don’t want to commit murder themselves, so they outsource it to us. They’re not violent psychopaths (an ableist slur, bt-dubs) just because they want to pay for violence, and sometimes want to watch it by demanding evidence of the hit. Plus, they better the lives of so many by donating the odd few quid to charities, and keeping the streets safe from rival gangsters on their turf.

Besides, it’s not like it’s real violence anyway. We’re selling a fantasy! (Well, I mean, the target is definitely dead, but the fantasy is that I didn’t do it.) And then I sell that fantasy to the police and any potential witnesses. (Anyway, lots of people enjoy target shooting, and it’s impossible to do that without using a person as the target – imagine hating everybody who likes sports! -_-;;)

Admittedly, I might not exactly represent everyone in my industry (e.g. all the child soldiers and conscripts you hear about now and again who might not want to commit murders), but imagine hating them so much that you would stop their employment! And if they don’t agree, they should get a blog and a marketing department of their own to put their side of the story.

Thank-you for being such a great ally to us! ^_^ I’d like to offer you a 10% discount on a future hit, so that’s £9,000 in used notes or into my Swiss bank account. Just let me know the target’s name and last known address, and provide a photo if possible (of the target, not of yourself please – after an unfortunate mix-up recently, I’ve had to start making that clear! ^_- )

If you’re trying to say lesbians can’t like dick For starters doesn’t have to be anything sexual in the relationship And either way lesbians are wlw and trans women are (shockingly) women

evilguacamole:

glow-cats:

evilguacamole:

glow-cats:

evilguacamole:

glow-cats:

evilguacamole:

iloveradfems:

spencer-shayy:

izzy-pea:

So you’re saying lesbians (who don’t like dick) should be in sexless relationships with males to work around the fact that they aren’t attracted to them? Do you realise how homophobic that is?

Here’s the thing you rape-promoting trans activists can’t wrap your tiny minds around. Nobody is obligated to talk to, befriend, date, and/or sleep with anyone. Nobody is owed any of that. Not transwomen, not transmen, not “cis” people. Nobody.

NO MEANS NO.

It might be a shocker for you but lesbians not only don’t like dick but they also LIKE and want vulvas, what’s the solution for that?Lesbians ignoring their desires to be with a male?

The lesbians I know define their orientation by liking women, not genitals.

That’s what we used to do, until the trans movement started redefining our words. 🙂

Y’all are using feminism to promote anti queer, ultra conservative hate mongering. You don’t get to talk about redefining words, you walking sack of garbage. Fuck off.

What the fuck is “anti queer”?

The trans movement is actually the “ultra conservative hate mongering” group, as you’ve so kindly put it. You constantly fucking harass and degrade lesbians into dating men, you violate women’s boundaries and guilt us into prioritising men. But do tell me how my feminism is the one that’s conservative.

I DO get to talk about redefining words, because it directly affects me. I can’t call myself a lesbian without 100 people screaming at me that if I don’t include men I’m a disgusting mistake, and that I deserve to be raped. What the hell am I, if not a lesbian? There’s no word to describe my sexuality anymore, because the trans movement has warped its meaning into another useless fucking term for bisexual.

But yeah.. I guess I’M the walking sack of garbage because my feminism prioritises women. Whatever helps you sleep at night, you disgusting homophobe.

Mmm. Yes. Now which of us are the republicans going to for legislation advice? Oh right, TERFs.

Trans women are women. Nothing you’ve said is relevant to the conversation because you are talking about men. You define women by a patriarchal sexual binary where sex organs trump any feminist ideas on gender. It’s industrialist, colonialist and misogynist to adhere to such poor understandings of gender. Your feminism sucks.

You are a lesbian who excludes lesbians because you adhere to patriarchal values. Anyone who says you must date some person is terrible and rape that’s are never okay. But regardless of dating preference you are still a bigot and a terrible person. I mean, I don’t care who you date: if you say trans women aren’t women you suck, you’re a bigot, a tool of conservatives and a blight on feminism. If you did date a trans woman and said they weren’t a woman you wouldn’t be any better a person. I’ve still never seen anyone ever even say this shit. What trans woman wants to be with a TERF? I don’t know anyone who’d want to be with a TERF other than another TERF. And I know a ton of lesbians, cis and trans. Every lesbian I know would rather date a man than a TERF.

You are still a lesbian. A really shitty one. Similar to one that wouldn’t date fat women or Black women. You’re still a lesbian though. You’re the one that wants bigotry to be part of your sexual identity. Why do you care if other lesbians would date trans women? You only want to date those who’ve never touched a peepee or something? Please, you’re like a man who doesn’t want a woman who’s touched someone else’s dick before his.

Your feminism prioritizes men’s views of what makes a woman. Which isn’t feminism at all. You can call me homophobic, but it doesn’t change that you are a bigot and trans women are women.

“Your feminism prioritizes men’s views of what makes a woman” so you obviously have no idea what radical feminism is, making everything else you said irrelevant lmfao. What are you basing your information on? Tumblr? I think it’s time to branch out.

Come back to me when you actually know what you’re talking about.

The patriarchy defines women by genitals, in binary and by breeding function. As do you.

You do not understand what a woman is and you are a tool of the patriarchy to maintain your ignorance and bigotry. You treat trans women as men treat all women: you do not trust them, you do not trust them to understand their bodies, you do not give them the freedom to be themselves, you wish to deny their bodily autonomy, you deny them their sexuality and their humanity. All to maintain your frail status quo.

I know what a “radical feminist” is. They are the cancer of feminism.

So happy to see this tagged #terfscanchoke! ^_^ Speaking as an identity-fluid assigned-male-at-birth with a history of committing strangulation murders and who is currently, woefully unlucky in love, it’s nice to see I’m not alone.

When most assigned-female-at-births find out about my criminal history and current employment status as a hitman (some very personal information which I TRUSTED THEM WITH), they either make their excuses and leave, or they start screaming and flee (rude!). And then I have to go back to my lonely, empty Kensington penthouse, and that’s denying me my sexuality and therefore my humanity! TT_TT I mean, I’ve always got my sexy scrapbook of photographs of things I’ve set fire to, but it’s just not the same without someone to share it with. Those selfish bitches.

I feel really offended when women don’t trust me. Perhaps they’ve encountered other violent AMABs in the past, or they’ve lived a life of seeing AFABs being blamed for violence against them committed by AMABs, and they’re judging me by the same standards. But I have never assaulted anyone without a contract. If anything, that makes me much safer to be around!

Anyway, I feel really pleased and validated and quite excited to see a celebration of people choking to death and recognition of my right to acquiescence, and of other people’s boundaries as the problematic obstacles that they are! ^_^  Actually, my former agency has been looking to replace me since I went freelance. You’d be a great fit! If you don’t mind the fact that most of the targets tend to be AMABs (they’re usually arms dealers, spies or organised crime bosses) rather than feminists, I could put in a good word for you with Sid “The Snake” if you like?

Thank-you for your allyship! ❤

alexandriasfx:

Bdsm is not abuse

Jessica Ruiz

https://www.verywell.com/difference-between-bdsm-and-abuse-4065395

BDSM, an acronym for “bondage, discipline/dominance, submission, and sadomasochism” is often misunderstood by the general public. One of the most common misconceptions is that BDSM is dangerous, reckless, and abusive. However, when practiced properly, BDSM is very different than intimate partner abuse.

For decades, BDSM practitioners have maintained that kink is safe, satisfying, and can positively affect both a participant’s sexual desires and their well-being. Over the last few years, science has confirmed these claims. Recent studies have uncovered the many health benefits of BDSM. Researchers have found that those who engage in BDSM activities have better mental health, more satisfaction in their relationships, and less stress than their vanilla-sex counterparts.

Those unfamiliar with BDSM were surprised by a new study from Northern Illinois University, which revealed that those involved in BDSM are more consent-minded when it comes to sex acts and less likely to conform to behaviors associated with rape culture. Practitioners of BDSM displayed “significantly lower levels of benevolent sexism, rape myth acceptance, and victim-blaming.” In other words, they respect the boundaries of their partner and are less likely to cross the boundaries of personal safety.

Even though studies show that BDSM clearly has positive benefits, many who look at these extreme behaviors from the outside perceive this type of sexual behavior as abusive, chaotic, and out of control. Abusive behavior should never be part of the BDSM dynamic, but how can we tell the difference?   

Consent Differentiates BDSM From Abuse

Consent is the cornerstone of all BDSM activity, and it’s one of the major factors that differentiates it from abuse. Put simply, BDSM is consensual. Abuse is not.

Before each BDSM “scene,“ participants express and negotiate their likes, desires, and limits. This means that all involved in the agreed-upon sex act set specific goals determining what they want to get out of the session—both emotionally and physically. They also discuss what are referred to as “hard and soft limits.” Hard limits are the things you would never engage in, while soft limits are things you might experiment with if and when the time feels right. Playing with the boundaries of soft limits requires deeper negotiation prior to beginning a session. 

Pre-scene negotiation can take many forms. Sometimes participants write out a contract detailing what is specifically allowed and forbidden. Others use a simple checklist of activities. They then discuss each item individually, indicating which is a desire or a limit. Others simply have an in-depth conversation about their boundaries.

BDSM Is Safe, Sane, and Consensual.

Those involved in BDSM often use the phrase “safe, sane, and consensual” to describe their type of sex play. Any play that is defined as “kink” but doesn’t incorporate the agreed-upon safe, sane and consensual elements may very well be abusive.

Safe means participants have taken precautions to minimize risks. It also means that participants are knowledgeable about the techniques and tools being used, which can eliminate both unwanted fear and dangerous behavior.

Sane indicates that those involved are in a state that allows them to separate fantasy from reality. This also means sobriety; senses and behaviors are not being impaired by the influence of intoxicants. Lastly, it implies refraining from imposing unrealistic expectations on your partner.

Consent means all parties have discussed and agree on boundaries. Equally as important, consent must be on-going. In other words, if an individual wishes to change their mind about any activity during play they can renegotiate at any time.

Communication Is Key.

Clear communication is imperative to practicing healthy BDSM. Safewords are standard fare in this type of play and a major element that differentiates BDSM from abuse. A safeword is a word or phrase that signals that one of the players either wishes to take a break or stop completely. An example of a safeword might be “red,” “banana”—or any other thing you wouldn’t normally say during sex or in the context of a scene. Additionally, if a Submissive is gagged or a Dominant’s hearing is impaired, safe signals can be used instead. This could be a gesture or something the Submissive holds in their hand and drops signaling their wish to pause the scene.

Important Differences Between Abuse and BDSM

Kinky play can involve things like punishment, humiliation, and even tears. This may seem like abuse to an outsider, making it understandably difficult to tell the difference between the two. However, when compared side by side with BDSM, we can see the stark differences.

Abusive episodes are out of control situations. In healthy BDSM, a Dominant never acts spontaneously out of anger. Scenes are pre-planned with care, thought, and with the best interest of the Submissive in mind.

Abusive situations usually end with negative emotions. A BDSM scene is designed to leave the participants feeling good and satisfied when it’s over. It’s a Dominant’s responsibility to give after-care when the session is over to make sure the Submissive feels happy, safe, and secure. In contrast, both the target and the abuser feel sad, angry, or ashamed following an abusive episode.

Abusive situations are often accompanied by substance abuse or emotional impairment. In healthy BDSM, players try to minimize anything that may affect their judgement during play—including the use of drugs or alcohol.

Abuse in BDSM Although recent studies have found those involved in BDSM are less likely to tolerate certain types of abuse, it can still happen. Abusive red flags in a BDSM relationship or scene are very similar to those found in other types of relationships. Some warning behaviors include: ignoring sexual boundaries non-consensual/non-negotiated verbal or physical abuse controlling behavior, including excessive jealousy unpredictable extreme mood swings substance abuse use of ultimatums and fear to control the victim isolating the victim from family and friends a history of abusive behavior with close contacts. If you recognize these or other signs of abuse in your own BDSM encounters, get outside help. If abuse occurs at a public BDSM event, seek out a Designated or Dungeon Monitor (DM). For private play with a new partner, always establish a safe call with a friend. Also, it isn’t unusual for those actively involved in the BDSM community to ask for references from previous partners.

@respectthefemalebody

This makes me feel very happy and validated!
😊

For most of my life, I was “in the closet”, so to speak, about my love of committing sexualised violence. You could say it’s exactly like homosexuals’ experience, or that of someone with a different sexual fetish (one which doesn’t involve assaulting people). The life of an extreme breath play practitioner such as myself is a lonely one, burdened with shame, from my parents, my school masters, the mental health services, the police and the judiciary. Fortunately when I was learning my craft, I had an excellent manager (Sid “The Snake” from Chelsea), and he helped teach me how to make my assassinations look like an auto-erotic asphyxiation gone wrong.

Sometimes, people say mean things to me like “it’s unhealthy to be aroused by committing acts of violence” and “murder is bad” (now, doesn’t that sound a lot like “thou shalt not kill”? Typical pearl-clutching, prudish SKERFs, siding with the religious right!). But what they forget is, it’s just a harmless fantasy. I mean, yes, technically, I do actually choke my targets to death for real, but the fantasy is that we’re pretending that they did it themselves by accident. (And then I sell that fantasy to the police afterwards.)

Besides, suicide is very common and has been practised throughout history – it’s completely healthy and normal to actually want to be subjected to lethal violence! So who are these SKERFs to judge the relationship I have with my clients and my targets? Leave me alone!  >_<

Anyway, the OP is not a SKERF, and is a great ally! 🤝  As recognition of your allyship, I will offer you a 20% discount on any future hits – so that brings the price down to £8,000 in used notes or transferred to my Swiss bank account. Just use the Ask box or message me for my bank details and to give me the target’s name (and their photo and last known address if possible, please)!
😉

rileyjaydennis:

Setting up a sex swing & inflatable dildo thing

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I love the harness!
😍 

Lots of mean old AFABs call me “creepy” or “skeevy” or a “homicidal fucking psychopath” (an ableist slur, bt-dubs) just because I get off on restraining,  assaulting and then murdering people. I always enjoyed having power over victims since I was a boy, killing ants in the back garden with a magnifying glass, and tying up the neighbours’ cat. “Do what you love”, the mercifully open-minded careers advisor at my alma mater (Carradine College, Oxford) said to me, and so I became a hitman.
And as shown here, restraining and disabling someone’s limbs so you can give them a “hard pounding” (I assume they mean with a hammer, tactical baton or improvised weapon) is a natural, healthy, fun thing to do! Look, it’s presented right alongside boring old toys for “genital stimulation” (apparently some people like that? 🤷‍♂️).

So stop judging me for getting off on violence. It’s anti-feminist (Everyday Feminism says so), and it makes me feel sad and left out. Harnesses and restraints are a great idea, especially for people new to the industry who are still working on their quick kill techniques. What a great idea for any #hitbabies out there! UwU

(Source: https://www.youtube.com/)

fluffylatias:

totallyradicalblog:

I’d rather reduce women to vaginas than reduce them to high heels and eyeliner

id rather uhh? kill cis women?? ☺️😘💕

Oh wow, I didn’t expect to find someone else who understands the urge to kill here on Tumblr! Hi there! 👋😀
Are you professional? Only I know a guy who’s hiring; since I went freelance, my former agency has been looking to replace me.
Although, we don’t usually kill cis women, most of the targets and clients tend to be assigned male at birth for some reason (the clients don’t always tell us how the targets identify, statistically I expect most of them are cis men but the client doesn’t always know). I’ve heard other AMABs tend to murder the AFABs in their lives themselves, they don’t often outsource it to us. Can’t imagine why. So the majority of your work would be killing cis men, most likely.
But if that’s not a dealbreaker for you, I think you’d fit right in! 😉 Visit the vodka bar at the end of Hutchence St in Chelsea and ask for Sid, and he’ll interview you. Good luck! 😊🤞

radladiesunite:

radwitchescauldron:

theeleanorvance:

dorkinlesbian:

radladiesunite:

what a moron

Uuuughh

“the fear [of being abused] is not based on a real threat” for women who have already been abused

do… do u hear yourself

They don’t care. Abuse that happens to women isn’t real to them. And when something happens that they can’t just hand wave away, then we had it coming for a host of reasons- we spoke up, we were dressed wrong, we denied a man something he wanted.

These assholes use the same language as other abusive men. Gee, I wonder why…

Btw, this person isn’t just spouting off this nonsense online, they are implementing unisex communal stalls at their university. 

They admitted there is not enough studies or evidence, which somehow proves their point (something they should know isn’t true if they supposedly study science):

But somehow also claim they KNOW that theres no risk:

Then they said the old “It’s never happened!!!!”:

When I provided instances of it happening, they go where every other liberal nutjob goes when face with this; They dismiss it, blame the victim, say prevention laws don’t work/don’t matter:

These people, even when faced with evidence, or lack thereof, even when provided counter examples and shown holes in their logic…still continue to prioritize TW comfort and safety over females. They claim it never happens, or when it does its inevitable, or that out fears are not based in reality, that women are not at risk. Sound familiar?

Well, actually, for your information, sweety, I can’t just walk into a bathroom and assault someone. It’s very difficult to get close to my targets in the first place, and it’s even more difficult if they have a nasty, exclusionary, SKERFy “safe space” specifically designed to keep you out!

Why shouldn’t I be allowed to assault people in bathrooms? It’s not like I go around assaulting people indiscriminately – my clients have to put a hit on them first – and it’s a useful place to clean up any blood afterwards.

Do you know how offensive it is to be told a whole institution exists only to exclude “male violence”, just because I’m a violent male? I think it’s really judgemental how these so-called “feminists” ally with religious organisations to have “moral objections” to assault and murder. I fully support neutral bathrooms for everyone! I’m sick of being challenged. If assigned-female-at-births would just shut the fuck up and stop screaming, and stop saying they “feel uncomfortable and threatened” when they see a large man in a balaclava throttling someone to death, then it would make my life MUCH easier. I’m just there to do my job, let me get on with it!

I mean, sure, sometimes assigned-male-at-births challenge me too (they don’t tend to scream, they just try to beat me up), and of course there are probably like one or two assigned-male-at-births who aren’t quite as discreet as I am and might want to assault people without a contract. But the REAL problem here is those exclusionary, gatekeeping, whiny, pre-menstrual, bitchy SKERF cunts. We need to focus on the real problem.

It’s 2017 and I’m STILL having to explain my work

So my old Yakuza friend Guro Kagaisha was in town to launder some money through the London property market. So we met up and went for a drink, and he said, “Hey Gaspar, remind me what it is you do again?”
“Well, Guro,” said I, “I’m a sex worker specialising in extreme breath play.”
“Oh, yeah, I remember now, you’re a stranglewank hitman,” said he, not very politically correctly, I might add. “So, let me ask you this: do you guys actually give the target a handbeezy or just make it look like you did?”

I was seriously grumpy at that point. It is not my job to educate Guro or anybody, but on this one occasion I said, “buy me a treble Langley’s and a packet of sea salt and balsamic vinegar Kettle Chips and I shall consider doing the emotional labour for you”.

Anyway, as I said to Guro after he’d bought me the required compensation for my emotional labour: I do not “actually give the target a handbeezy”, no. Nor do I make it look as though I did. I choke the target to death, and then I make it look as though the target did it to himself/herself/xorself by accident during a sexual misadventure. The only sexual aspect to it is when I arrange the body post-mortem and put the corpse’s own hand down his/her/xer chinos.

“So,” said Guro, taking a sip of his whisky, “you don’t really do any sex shit then?”
“No, Guro, I do not really do any sex shit,” I sighed.
“So you’re not a sex worker, then, are you?”

Well, I had had just about enough of his gatekeeping, invalidating bullshit by then. How dare he challenge my status as a sex worker?

I AM a sex worker. Sure, I’m not actually selling sex or exposing myself in any way, but what I am selling is the fantasy of erotic asphyxiation. I sell that fantasy to the target’s contacts, and to the police. And that gives me an interest in the industry and the right to speak over people who don’t have inside knowledge about the industry (e.g. former sex workers, survivors, trafficking victims who aren’t involved in it any more and hence have no stake in the issue whatsoever, people still in the industry who don’t want to be there, and people who disagree with me about full legalisation of the sexual violence industry).

Anyway, fortunately, Guro is very good at self-crit. When he was a hitbaby and made a mistake on a job, he even cut off bits of his fingers as part of his self-critting for his boss! What a great ally! ^_^  So he said a big sorry to me and we hung around outside Bank-Monument station for a bit, where he bought me a few grams of coke as compensation for hurting my feelings and invalidating my identity.

So now we’re friends again! 🙂 We’re going to spend the rest of his visit buying houses, planning how to get revenge on Dmitry for poisoning me with polonium (even if it did result in my super edgy new trendsetting fashionqueering haircut), and I’ll introduce him to my pet pigs. Should be a nice relaxing week.