yourenotafeminist:

As long as everyone is willing and happy don’t be ashamed.

If you like bdsm that’s okay!
If you like furries that’s okay!
If you like fictional girls that’s okay!

Your kinks are your kinks and that’s okay! Everyone is different and we shouldn’t be ashamed! And don’t feel ashamed! It’s dumb to be ashamed of your fetishes. Fetishes as long as they aren’t hurting anyone are a-ok!

This is really validating and lovely to see!
Though I feel I should add that, actually, even hurting people is okay! As the OP says, if you like BDSM, which often includes pain play (and breath play like my work), then that’s okay.

For most of my life, I was shamed for my extreme BDSM breath play sex work by the police and the judiciary, so it makes me happy to see acceptance. Fortunately I was never convicted, I was working for an agency at the time and my manager Sid “The Snake” visited all the members of the jury at home and convinced them of my innocence.

Thank-you for your allyship!!  ^_^