Tag: wet work is work

rileyjaydennis:

What is a SWERF?

Thank-you so much for your support!
😍 

Speaking as someone who works in an underground industry that some mean
old fake feminists call “violent” or “exploitative”, I really appreciate it. They don’t like hitmen either, they’re too busy wittering on about the “survivors” who aren’t in the industry any more (so they can hardly judge, can they?) and the ~90% of the industry who want to “escape the gangs as their first priority” and they completely exclude us consenting, high class workers. Yes, we might be the wealthiest 1% of the industry, but that makes us an excluded minority!

These
SWERFs claim that most of the violence we face comes from our clients
and managers, but what they don’t realise is that, if they didn’t listen to feminists, these gangsters,
crime lords and traffickers wouldn’t be so mean to us. I think the fact
that these nice, misunderstood men want to pay for violence rather than just do it for free actually says a lot about
their humanity.

Far too many of my former customers and managers are in prison for “violence against the person”, and it’s those feminists’ fault for criminalising GBH and murder.
If our work and our clients were decriminalised, we could do nice, clean kills, without having to worry about hiding the body. Wealthy men could relieve their violent urges in a healthy way by paying one of us wet workers for the violence they crave, instead of assaulting people indiscriminately, or, say, not assaulting anybody.

Personally, I love what I do, and I think I’m quite representative of the whole industry. If most of the industry really is all these so-called “trafficked children” and “survival prostitution victims”, how come we never see them doing a vlog series?
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(Source: https://www.youtube.com/)

xenoqueer:

sera-wohldmann:

strongorcbutch:

arionwind:

I will never not be exhausted by people who seem to think they can be anti SWERF and anti kink.  As if anti-kink doesn’t always always always wind up coming down hard on sex workers.  Come on, kids, at least pretend to put some thought into this shit.

It can be a complex issue. Because as much as people try to make it a yes/no issue, all kinks are NOT created equal. There are people using various aspects of my identity as kinks, aspects of my identity that are not theirs. There are people who are using “kink” as an excuse to craft and maintain explicitly abusive relationships. And this is not a tiny isolated problem. Things like racism and transmisogyny are mainstream problems in kink communities. I can be strongly critical of the scene and community without being anti sex worker. And sex workers can do sex work without participating in denigrating people of color, trans women, and so on.

I’m very pro SW, and worked in cams before. I get there are some kinks that are just “not my thing yet mostly harmless,” but there are also some that are not that.

I see women bragging about their bruises inflicted by men and I can’t help but feel there is something malevolent about that when we live in a world overflowing with male violence. It harkens back to the argument about the failings of “choice” feminism.

I see men who, time and again, avoid culpability and consequences for violating consent in kink communities, and I can reach no other conclusion but the pervasiveness of rape culture.

In addition to the disturbing trans fetishization Eve referred to, I see the same applied to various racial and ethnic stereotypes being fetishized. Those in control in so many kink communities are so very white that it’s hard to see these fetishes as anything other than power fantasy.

So no, it’s not that simple.

Do you react this strongly when women athletes show off their injuries after a bout? What about outdoorswomen who twist their ankles hiking and then laugh about it afterwards?

Or is it only when sex is involved, that suddenly women become incapable of deciding whether the pain involved in an experience is worth the experience itself?

And if you can think of no reason why people of color involved in kink might want to explore race dynamics on our own terms, then I’m afraid you’re just assuming everyone is white and to hell with the consequences of that erasure. I will give you this one for free: after a lifetime of being told I should be grateful for being hypersexualized, sometimes it’s nice to actually be seen as sexually desirable on my own terms and revel in that, instead of having it thrown in my face constantly, against my will. You know, by consent. The thing that makes flirting not be sexual assault, and that makes sex not be rape? That thing?

And as for @strongorcbutch, racism and transmisogyny are mainstream problems everywhere. There is no special trait of being kinky that makes you more racist, more transmisogynist. 

And yet, people rush to reply to the post of a transfeminine person and tell them that they are transmisogynistic for supporting sex workers. People rush to suggest that sex workers, who are indeed mostly people of color, are racist for doing our jobs. 

The assumption that sex workers and kinksters are not capable of knowing what transmisogyny and racism look like is rooted in the assumption that kink is a cis, male, white space and that sex work is too, and that’s so presumptuous on so many levels that I barely know where to start.

I’m glad to see acceptance of people showing off their injuries after someone ties up and batters them. It makes my job so much easier! Back in less enlightened times, if Big Dave and I were doing some “enforcement work” and we went a teensy bit too far and left evidence of actual injury on our victims, we had to bribe the police to get out of charges for grievous bodily harm.

But now that lots of people (completely of sound mind and un-coerced, I’m sure) are happy to be restrained and beaten to the point of leaving bruises, and their good friends and allies celebrate it and don’t worry about them, we don’t need to bother! Now we just say “well, some people enjoy GBH, you know, it’s his word against ours”. Sometimes the police don’t even bother investigating the Scene (that’s kink terminology for “crime scene”, jsyk) in the first place!

It is a very big assumption that kink and sex work is a cis, male, white space that exploits women and people of colour. In fact, here in the UK, only 99% of buyers are cis men and a whopping 6% of workers are male, and only 85% of people in sex work are foreign nationals.
Though I’m sure they’re perfectly nice men, they sound a lot like my usual client base (also mostly cis, white men). That’s not counting the middle-class white chaps who travel to Asia, Africa and South America for the trade, but I’m sure  they’re nice too, one of them was a senior Oxfam boss, so they can’t be all bad.

I agree we should support workers involved in our industries, but could we focus more on those of us who chose our jobs and want to stay in the industry, and prioritise us over the 89% who don’t have a choice? It’s condescending and presumptuous to do otherwise.

Thank-you for supporting the industry and our clients! ❀

adrunkensailor:

artemiswasamerf:

phalloid-destroyer:

adrunkensailor:

500mgs:

I hope every man that travels for sex tourism gets castrated

Get over yourself.

Shut the fuck up challenge

Radfems: Men who travel for the explicit reason to rape drugged and enslaved women and children should have their dicks chopped off

@adrunkensailor : Uhm, those men are not harming anyone. Worse things happen. Get over it.

That’s
 not what I thought they meant by “sex tourism” and I’ve never heard it used that way before. I’ve only heard of used to mean someone whom goes from place to place to try different prostitutes.

I know exactly how you feel. People often criticise me for being “an extremely violent man”, as though it were a bad thing. I was jolly confused, because I’ve only heard “extremely violent man” used to mean “a man who commits extremely violent crimes”. And what’s wrong with that??

Expecting a knighthood any day now

Last week, I was delighted to see the Queen bestow an honour on another violence industry advocate!
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Dame Catherine Healy, founder of the New Zealand Prostitutes Collective, is a brave soul who
“swapped her job as a primary school teacher to become a sex worker in the 1980s”,

and ever since, she’s been fighting for the rights of the well-educated folx who chose their jobs in the industry.

What’s more, the NZPC is super intersectional! Anna Reed of the NZPC said, “If I was young and beautiful, I would love to go on a ‘working holiday” somewhere where the laws protected me. That would be a great holiday… People come here knowing what they’re doing.“
This is just the sort of support and inclusivity we need for migrant folx who’ve been trafficked onto a working holiday.

They even write letters of support to folx like the Chow brothers , who are assigned-male-at-births who have a great interest in violence and exploitation.

Well, so the witnesses and so-called “victims” say, but, as the brothers’ defence lawyer said,
“If the situation was as bad as they portray, why would the NZ Prostitutes Collective support

[them]?”
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Why indeed? Those silly girls are probably just mistaken or lying.

Anyway, Her Dameship says,
"It’s extraordinary to see how far we have come. This shows the
acceptance of this industry. We are a part of society, not apart from
it. It’s about reducing the stigma and acknowledging that we are an
inclusive society in this country.”  ❀

I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before I’m knighted too, for acceptance of the industry. I’ve done so much to normalise buying and selling brutal assaults. Check my #hitbabies tag, I give lots of advice to folx new to working in the industry and to make it sound nice and glamorous.
I advocate for those of us who choose and enjoy our work, and for our clients, who are all really lovely people and actually very sweet, shy men who would never hurt a fly. That’s why they hire us hitmen to do it for them!

Sir Gaspar of Kensington, for services to rehabilitating the violence industry’s public reputation. Watch out for the New Year honours list! ^_-

Incels Should Indulge Their Urges With a Professional

Like everyone, I was utterly shocked and appalled and taken completely by surprise to see another man commit a mass killing because he hated assigned-female-at-births.

But just imagine if we can manage to stop stigmatizing and punishing hitmen and kill buyers; if we can stop telling men who “have to” pay for murders that they’re losers or monsters or not real men (and acknowledge that, really, deep down,
we’re all basically, kind of, metaphorically, all doing the same thing. Can any of us can really claim to be a better person than someone who pays for murders?)

Then, male entitlement will be less likely to explode. And then there’ll be fewer, cleaner murders. Instead of going around killing indiscriminately, these “incels” could pay an assassin to kill someone much more cleanly and quickly! It’ll be nice and discreet and out of sight, so it won’t even bother most people. There’ll be a class of people – us “wet workers” – who can get our hands dirty and do all the killing, and most people won’t be any the wiser! ^_- It’s a victimless crime! (Except for the victims, obvs. And the “child soldiers” and people “trafficked” into the gangs. But if these so-called “victims” have a problem with it, they should start their own blogs.)

Like I said, I have no sympathy for the self-identified,
ranting, raving “incels” on online forums. I do, however, sympathize
with the plight of people—men and women—who experience sexual and
romantic deprivation and are miserable and violent as a result.
(Granted, it’s only been men so far, and almost all of my clients have been men, but we’re due a murderous sexually frustrated non-man at some point.)

A culture that honoured consensual wet work and
didn’t shame people for purchasing hits? That could alleviate a lot of
misery! ^_^

Adding the advertising list on here too

(Posting this on as many platforms as possible and keeping offline copies in case anything disappears. Unfortunately a lot of moralistic types have a problem with clients who like to pay for murders and they keep getting taken down
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Besa Mafia @ #
(seems to be unavailable at the moment sadly TT_TT )

Hire A Killer #
http://www.hire-a-killer.com/

Silk Road * @ #
(is also now gone)

Dream Market * @ #
https://www.deepdotweb.com/marketplace-directory/listing/dream-market/

Craigslist * @   (ads are being taken down, be cautious)
http://www.craigslist.org/

So, if you’re a nice guy in the market for a hit, there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s only natural to want to commit extreme violence – so here are some resources so you can hire one of us to satisfy your urges! ^_^

I’m helping out my fellow “wet workers” by getting them as many clients as possible. That’s the best way to support hitmen, you know. (Don’t listen to those traitorous SKERF sympathisers who say “but I want to exit the industry and get away from the gangs and support myself without being subjected to severe trauma”, they don’t represent us “happy hitmen”!)

And to any clients wishing to hire me specifically, don’t forget, you can contact me on here too!

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@ disfigurement/dismemberment inclusive (includes a section for non-lethal violence; not necessarily optimised for non-lethal workers)

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MIPIM won’t register hitmen :(

Next month is MIPIM, the big, glitzy property conference. Every year, thousands of property groups, construction firms and investors attend “the world’s leading property market” in Cannes.

The BBC says “The conference is also known for its after-hours parties, on luxury
yachts and in private hotel rooms; which are apparently male dominated
[I think they mean ‘assigned-male-at-birth-dominated’ here] and fuelled by booze”. Which was delightful. But now some mean SKERFs are trying to stop the “discriminatory and exploitative behaviour in the construction and property industries”, and MIPIM is warning everyone not to hire sex workers and saying it won’t register us! TT_TT

Dmitry, Guro, Big Dave and I were really looking forward to it! We were going to have a nice holiday on the French Riviera, launder our money through some investments, and advertise our services among the attendees.
Big Dave and I have had quite a few gigs doing enforcement and debt collection work for landlords. If a tenant falls behind on their rent, we visit them and incentivise them to pay up with some “pain play” or “blood play”.

Some killjoy SKERFs say it’s exploitative to abuse people who are so poor that they have no alternative to being beaten up by me and Big Dave. I say it’s a free choice. You have to respect people’s right to decide what happens to their bodies. To say that they have no choice is to deny their agency.

And I always give them a choice: they can choose to pay up, or they can choose which fingers I break!

Aid workers should be allowed to hire mercenaries; to stop  them would infringe their civil liberties

Of course one can’t condone paying for hits (it’s not for everyone, folx). But one just cannot infringe on people’s civil liberties, and it would be impractical to think we could enforce a total ban.

Besides, have you ever thought about how hard it must be to sustain civilised values, when you’re in a disaster zone, in an uncivilised country? Overall, you should respect the people who go in, where most fear to tread.

I went on a volun-tourism trip to Hiati (sp?) on my gap year, as a matter of fact. And yes, I did work with some peoplx employed in the violence industry. So I’m actually qualified to comment on the situation.

Me on my gap year.

When you’re in an uncivilised dump overseas, you do tend to give in to your baser instincts. When in Rome, and all that.
(Well, the contract killing trade is illegal over there, but you know what I mean: lots of people do it anyway, so the morality of it is actually highly subjective.) And I did loads of charity work, I even gave the natives a PowerPoint presentation and everything, which more than makes up for it.

So, yeah, I met up with some local gangs, gave them some food and medicines in exchange for a little go with their tech, sharing some tips, no harm done.

Some of them seemed a little young – you hear a lot of moralising about “child soldiers” – but there’s no way to be sure they were children, especially since the gangs had taken all their identity documents. In my opinion, it’s actually a good thing for kids to be proactive about their careers and get some work experience. And, as I always say: wet work is work! ^_^